The Journey of a couple of budding Pick Up Artists

Saturday, July 15, 2006

PUA's code of conduct

As a PUA, one of the downside is that you cannot talk about your artistry to anyone except for other PUA's. This is really frustrating because some of the ideas in PU is really brilliant, and will enhance the lives of many people in society. Another sad fact is that people do not understand what it means to be a PUA - we are mistaken as some insecure jerk who is out to take advantage of women.

This is simply not true. A lot of PUA are really nice, responsible and respectable guys. It saddens me seeing how some people's attitude toward women is just absolutely appalling. Unfortunately, these guys are "successful" in a way that they get the girls. But what does "Getting the girl" mean? Sleeping with them, psychologically bound by them? And what for? Self validation, sex, dominance? It is fallacious to think that being respectable and being a PUA is mutually exclusive.

The truth however, is that PUA's have a lot of power, the power to define reality, the power to control minds. Having such powerful ability is scary to those who are succeptable to it. In fact, it scares us sometimes too! We must be responsible in using this power. We have to ensure that it is put to better humanity. I believe that each and every PUA must understand the ethics behind our actions.

This document is written to formalise a guideline to help making decisions when it comes down to picking up women.

PU is about respect. Respect your targets, your friends and most importantly, respect yourself. You must have character and be able to resist temptation to benefit yourself at other people's expenses. Every person's existence is sacred and must be respected.

No lieing to get a girl. There is no need to lie, why would you need, or even want to lie? Are you really that pathetic, that you have to resort to deception to get a girl?

A person of great strength is fundamentally self sufficient and do not require any validation nor approval. There is no need to take advantage of others. You understand the balance between living and giving: that it is a privilage to be able to give, to show your appreciation, while at the same time, being able to enjoy life. You thrive to bring out the best in people and creating an environment that resonates with positive energy.


  • At 8:42 AM, Blogger Jimmy Foxx said…

    Top stuff. Couldn't agree more.

    You see, women all too aften complain about men being "insensitive, unable to talk about their feelings ect." Well, men like us PUA's are exactly what they are looking for. Why? Because we strive to be intimately familiar with what ATTRACTION is all about. And, we do it in a way that respects the woman, makes her feel good... REALLY good, we have depth, sense of humour and a great respect for life and culture.

    I know guys who are assholes and get women. I consider them as weak and uninteresting and I never wish to socialise with them. As far as I'm concerned, they are just lucky to be good-looking enough to attract women in the first place. If they didn't have looks, they'd be fucked. They have no game, no understanding of romantic spice, and are shallow as a puddle. Sometimes I even feel sorry for the women that are with them. Sometimes.

    More importantly, it's great to be a PUA as described in Rhod's post. I respect good people. I have developed a keen ability to sense selfishness in a person, and I know how to end my time with a person like that early on. I never used to be like that. Always giving assholes and mean bitches chances. Second chances. Third chances. Tenth chances. You know what? That's OK. I learned from that. I'm happy with the person I am and the cool dudes and chicks I choose to hang with these days. I'm selective, and that's great. I can tell you one thing for sure - these people don't have a selfish bone in their body. They care about themselves just as much as they care about their freinds. That's what I want. And that's the type of woman I would choose to be with as well.

    It's so much fun spending time with people you can trust. Let the good times roll.

  • At 9:07 PM, Blogger Mimesis said…

    Yeah, Jimmy. I had this epiphany one day that "why the hell am I haning out with the loosers around me?" "Why am I upset about the women who go for the Jerks and not me?"

    Well guess what? THERE IS NO REASON TO! Being able to spot a cool dude to hang out with, cool chicks (but not fat) to go out on dates with is gold.

    I like Jimmy's cooment "Sometimes I even feel sorry for the women that are with them. Sometimes" The "Sometimes" is funny, hee hee

  • At 1:16 AM, Blogger Jimmy Foxx said…

    LOL... and "no fat chicks". God we should start our own comedy blog :p


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