The Journey of a couple of budding Pick Up Artists

Saturday, September 02, 2006

Difference between initial attraction vs dating

It is very clearn in my mind now that creating that initial attraction in the first meeting is different from the subsequent steps.

It is much MUCH easier to be yourself and just have fun in the beginning to achieve something highly effective. However, the same strategy cannot be applied. I think it is in one of Doc Love's quotes "Everyone new is attractive". This helps in the beginning, and you can apply the principle of not trying so hard or just being friendly and have fun.

I don't think this is enough beyond the initial attraction. You need something more insidious to achieve a powerful effect, to make them do the work. This is probably the key, the main focus. We have to work towards her interest level so that she actually do the work! Must settle for nothing less. Do not compensate your lack in that area by asking her out, buying her affection or giving in with red flags! You lose self respect, you lose your residency in PUA land and you will be deported back into... you guessed it, hobo land on heat!


  • At 8:31 PM, Blogger Jimmy Foxx said…

    The bad thing about AFC hobo land on heat is that you are NEVER able to burn your passport to that country! It's like it's made of steel and it's permanently in your pocket - so it can ALWAYS be accessed. The key to being a PUA is that you stop opening that passport when an situation arises upon border entry into AFC-land.

    This is why David D always emphasises that you must always keep doing what's working. If you are PUA in the early stages, and you're amplifying her attraction and she has a high interest level, don't fuck it up by turning into an insta-wuss! It's such a tragedy to reach into your pocket and take out that AFC passport. We know all too well that it's the beginning of the end of your relationship with this woman as soon as you access the AFC passport again.

    Initial attraction is the first key. Amplifying attraction (David D) or increasing her interest level (Doc Love) is the second key. Carefully monitoring red flags is the third key. All 3 are essential and integral to the entire process. Just like the tripod to your camera - if you lose one of its three legs, it will fall over!

  • At 8:31 PM, Blogger Jimmy Foxx said…

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  • At 2:54 AM, Blogger Mimesis said…

    Need to get the whole process refined! I am feeling I am so inadequate now...


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